Weird sticky situation

Freemans 00

Freemans 00

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I'm in a weird and sticky mental ****ed up situation. I need help. Alright I met this girl via Facebook and lately I been looking for a good girl that has something going for them and can keep up with my fast paced life. Anyways this girl is like perfect. Going to school for photo journalism and is clean and very smart. Anyways we been talking and **** and she's perfect knows what she wants and isn't into drugs or none of that ****. She drives a damn jeep that's a 5 speed and is damn cute. Only thing is when she doesn't reply I over react and feel like she isn't interested and crap like that I over think ****. If she wasn't interested I think she would tell me, anyways I don't know how to go about this I don't want to sound needy and up her ass, but I don't want her thinking I'm ignoring her and not chasing her. Confusing. I literally drive myself crazy on hit like this. I'm a good honest old testament kind of guy and I honestly care. **** what should I do and how should I go about this?
 
Well, being a girl myself... may I add, you're quite adorable by freaking out about it. But anyway, just relax. Play it cool and act yourself. That is the best advice I can give to any guy. Be yourself. If she doesn't like that, well she isn't good enough. Everything happens for a reason, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Just give her space if she doesn't answer, but after about a day or so, you talk to her. Start a random subject. And just slowly ease yourself into the more seriousness of it.

I hope I helped some.
 
Yeah you did a lot but I just sent her about a book load of information explaining every little detail of it all. I don't think she understood when she said she wants someone she can teach and learn from because she's going to learn a lot.
 
You sound a little pushy lol. No offense... But that was my #1 mistake growing up. I thought the exact same stuff you did. She doesnt answer, she must not like me when they really are just busy at work or somethin and forget to check their phone/facebook/what have you. Play it cool. And like Beaner said, be yourself! If she doesnt like who you are, dont let her get to ya. Dont change for her. Kick her to the curb and find the next cutie who drives a manual Ranger 4x4 lol.
 
It's weird I want to slap people and be like hey do you not understand that we both love the exact same thing and are exactly alike how could anything go wrong. Fuk it I don't see how me being a total ass hole and dick gets me more chicks
 
Freemans 00 said:
It's weird I want to slap people and be like hey do you not understand that we both love the exact same thing and are exactly alike how could anything go wrong. Fuk it I don't see how me being a total ass hole and dick gets me more chicks
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It works! :whistling:
 
Ignoring them works, its weird and messed up. I remember I liked this chick soo much, when I catered to her it was like she didnt care. When I ignored her and was a jerk, she was all about me. haha
 
My advice for you Mike, let things happen as they are going to. If she isn't into you, she'll make it noticeable. Maybe not like a punch in the dick noticeable, but she'll slowly fade away from you. If she is into you, let her text/call/facebook you first and see how it goes. If you and her get closer, ask her if she wants to grab lunch or something some day, and name a place that she might like. Don't be overzealous and go out of your way for her until you know she is really into you. Then you can see what she likes and what she doesn't like.
 
Petes got some good points but one other thing Id like to point out: not all girls are the same. Some fall for that "ignoring" stuff and bein an ass and then theres those girls that are like my gf. I pretty well let her know I liked her and told her often about how shes pretty and so fourth. She was like butter :) Warm her up a bit and its all smooth from there. In my opinion, just gowith the flow. If you realize anything she likes/dislikes then your getting somewhere
 
To be honest man, I have to agree with the rest on this one. I went through the same thing with this really great girl. I have come to the conclusion that she doesn't know what she wants. She is a really cool girl, she can hang with the guys but still keeps true to herself. She drives two vettes, a 78 and an 84, both that she built herself. I would always initiate conversation and same thing that you are encountering. Loss of sleep, sadness, just all around going nuts. I'm usually a pretty cheerful person even when things are bad so it was a huge change. I finally just stopped putting so much effort into something that seems to be at a standstill. Where this differs from your situation is this girl has spurts where I feel she is wanting to hang out all the time and and then there is just nothing for a while.


Either way, my advice is to try to first, let her initiate conversation. As painful as it is, its one of the only ways you know there is mutual feelings there. Second, do your best to focus on other things. I have put my head into work and school for the past month just so I dont get back in that funk. Something will happen, good or bad, it may just take a while. Maybe she just doesnt exactly know what she is looking for right now.
 
and if all else fails, tell her to close her eyes and reach into your pocket. That will do one of 2 things, number 1 she will reach into your pocket, or she will tell you where to go.
either way you got your answer! ;)
 
Diabolical Ranger said:
and if all else fails, tell her to close her eyes and reach into your pocket. That will do one of 2 things, number 1 she will reach into your pocket, or she will tell you where to go.
either way you got your answer! ;)
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