update
two different locksmiths said you can't override it without electrical problems due to the computer in the smart junction box. so i broke down and took it back to ford. on the way there the gas gauge went from full to empty. then stayed on empty. i told all this to the service rep. and he said it most likely is the smart junction box because ford uses a computer to regulate all the accessories. so i think its gonna be a $700 dollar trip to the shop. if it works i will be glad to have my truck back! i could have used it in the hurricane, i had to work! i will keep everyone posted and i will be sure to get as much info on the fix as possible so no one else has to spend the 700 bucks.